
SW-User
obviously you're not the only one, other people have been doing it for thousands of years.
Shayla · F
Many people don't understand poly. It goes against a lot of cultural beliefs. It's not an easy lifestyle choice, but it can be fulfilling if it's right for you.
BabyTay98 · 22-25, F
I also would like a relationship like this. Couldn't care less about people who hate on that. May never happen anyway.
Sicarium · 46-50, M
Not at all, there's quite a few people who aren't looking for a monogamous relationship.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
Are you married now or do you want to join into an existing relationship ? Are you LDS? You must be very accepted by both of the other two parties. In this day and age many more alternative relationships are possible. Are you gay or straight or bisexual? Do you want children? What is your occupation? Health issues? What are you looking for in a committed relationship that you cannot have on your own? You are still quite young so you might want to explore a bit first. Marriage is a pretty big commitment, especially once kids happen. Fifty percent fail as it is. My guess is that bigger clans even have more issues. I was married once and was a single parent. It's not always fun. Kinda like having my own bed now and no drama.
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SW-User
because its unfamiliar to a lot of people
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
Your open mind will reward you.
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
Why do you say that?
How can you say you're very willing to enter one after saying you want to learn more about it first?
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
Because I know the basic structure to it but It can be taken in different ways. You can have it be where it's an open relationship on both sides you can have it be only people who are approved you can all be together or you can have one person be with multiple people if they are okay with it. So yeah it's something you'd have to talk about and learn about before you just want into that.
Don't judge me for the way I word it I know what I mean. I know what I'm referring too
Don't judge me for the way I word it I know what I mean. I know what I'm referring too
I'm not judging you at all. It's just concerning when someone is willing to commit so something so significant without knowing exactly what it is.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
I think that remaining single but being active would be a better choice. Too many fish in the sea. Why get stuck in just one school?
Danez · M
If open marriages work for some people then there's no reason that a polygamist marriage couldn't.

SW-User
i couldnt do that.. i couldnt handle more than one person.
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
Hahah yes, I don't think it's for everyone.
DiamondInTheMud · 31-35, M
It's like an open marriage/relationship. If you're OK with that then you're good
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
I'm open to this, too.
As well as polyandrous relationships.
As well as polyandrous relationships.
Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M
I would join you. Sounds very interesting

SW-User
No, a lot of guys would agree with you.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
What are you hoping to get from it?

SW-User
It's not the societal norm, so people react oddly
On a side note I read a really weird story yesterday. Some chick could sleep with anyone she wanted, but the dude had to stay loyal #wtf #ishedrunk
On a side note I read a really weird story yesterday. Some chick could sleep with anyone she wanted, but the dude had to stay loyal #wtf #ishedrunk
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
People blindly follow, that's why so many tend to be unhappy.
Yeah, that is not what I want. It would be the same for both. I'd says she's a polyandrist but that's not exactly that.
Yeah, that is not what I want. It would be the same for both. I'd says she's a polyandrist but that's not exactly that.
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
no your not the only one
Polyamorous. Polygamous refers specifically to marriage. And they're atrocious, speaking from my own experience.
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
I would very much like to hear more of this if you're willing to speak to me about it. In private message of course.
I'm an outlier, I doubt anything I have to say would be of much use to you.
Serendipitymaybe · 51-55, M
Message me
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Most people will never understand that...it is ok ...they do not need to.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
Lol that's what I said to someone who was criticizing me for wanting to own a gun. He said, "I just don't get it." I said, That's okay, you don't have to.
silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP
I was talking about it to a friend and they said they didn't understand it. That they were bisexual too and they didn't feel the urge to be in a poly relationship and I told her. It's like anything it differs with the person... and she just said okay but I start to turn away and she makes a face which I don't mind if you don't understand just to be fake about it and respectful. And I've yet to meet someone who has that same desire. Thank you.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I have thought about it and discussed it with my husband ...we both are curious but have not ever done anything about it truly.
bijouxbroussard · F
(mute)