I can identify with how you feel, and while I definitely agree with all the comments thus far I think it's important to mention that your feelings are valid and they can be present in people who may have a different type of disability. Acknowledge your feelings and communicate them. She will be able to tell you how she feels better than we can. I'm certain she will tell you that it doesn't matter to her, but push past that, talk about the things that may become annoying or troublesome, so she's aware of the things that you're sensitive to. We are going to annoy our partners at some point, probably more than we realize, but that's life. We stay in relationships because that person matters more than the sum total of things that bother us.
I hope this helps.
Best,
The Rabbit
