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Cyclist · 46-50, M
And why is your husband’s mommy picking a house for him? If she’s doing that, it doesn’t sound like he’s old enough to be married or live by himself.
@Cyclist she conviently took over as his mistress when we were having marriage problems they iced me out when he cheated on me with his co worker. I came back with a mission trust me.

anythingoes477 · 31-35, M
Just to recap...........your job ended.....you had no where to go....no job lined up and SOMEONE else gave your husband a free home...............but the one to put a FREE roof over your head is at fault because your FREE house.......that don't even belong to you.........isn't a mansion.

Hmmmmm??

I think I know why he and you separated.
@anythingoes477 Nope my husband was working !!!!! And while we were not together his mother would LOOOK for the home for him and my son while he was out the country. I feel like if they would’ve consulted me I could’ve helped find a better quality home. My husband did not have time to LOOK for the home. HE IS PAYING THE MORTGAGE ON IT EVERY MONTH AND I THINK ITS A SHITTY HOME.
@anythingoes477 ITS NOT FREE HE IS PAYING ON IT I WILL HAVE TO PAY FOR ALL THESE REPAIRS AND NO JOB ON MY END DOES NOT MEAN POOR. I was a sahm mom for almost 8 years of our marriage his request. Now I’m doing other things. WHO SAID FREEEEE ? Lmaoooo
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, FVIP
Instead of wasting money on a town house u guys could remodel the house given to u
It isn't safe to live in a home like that. Mold is a killer. Sounds like this one needs extensive repairs or needs to be bulldozed and replaced.
Be nice to the mom though, she did try to give you a house, that is a pretty amazing gift, even if it isn't liveable currently.
Adrift · 61-69, F
@SoftIceCream I would bring her a box of roaches as a way to say thank you.
GoFish ·
it can be remodeled with bigger bathrooms you should fix the water issue that causes the basement to flood first tho.. the water needs to be rerouted elsewhere .. does it have a big yard/garden or something?
@GoFish thank you he wants to start with the basement first. I know he is tired from his 6 month work trip we just got home yesterday
GoFish ·
@Lexithegreat yeah one needs a break from traveling.. you shouldn't worry your home will be beautiful.. just give it time
4meAndyou · F
If you have MONEY you could call in a mold remediation company and have the water issues fixed and the mold remediated, or removed. THAT would help with the bad smell. You could also call a pest control company to have the bugs removed.

BUT it sounds as though you are angry, and I doubt that you want anything to do with the house or your husband.
Is there anyway for you guys to put this on the market and move on? I'm sure he'd love to get rid of it as much as you do.
Jessmari · 46-50, T
Sounds like that place needs to be condemned. Good luck with the town house.
@Jessmari thank you it’s giving sabatoge I’m looking at a bug crawl while I type this I’m having panic attacks
Jessmari · 46-50, T
@Lexithegreat Know how that is. I dealt with bb like a decade ago and they can mess with you psychologically. Also, they are exhausting to fight even with the help of an exterminator.

Make sure you don't carry anything to the new place.
Maybe I have sensory issues because weird smells irritate me, crud in the corner of a home irritate me, roaches give me PTSD from my child hood growing up, moldy old bathrooms make my skin crawl.

 
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