My Mother in law picked out a ugly house for my husband during seperation and I’m stuck with it.

This house is moldy smelly old, she only picked it becahse it’s 45 minutes away from her. My husband trusted her to pick this home while he was busy traveling in Paris for work. At that time we were seperated for 3 years no contact. Then one day when he got the house he told me to come home and that I had a home. He felt guilty for cheating on me with his co worker so I guess this was his way of making up for it. I left becauee my friend I was caregiving for her daughter wanted to take over and it was my time to leave. The house has brought us back under one roof. I just wish maybe they called me before this purchase. It’s all out dated the tiles are falling off the walls in the bathroom from moisture and deterioration. The bath rooms are small and cramped up. He said he got the house so he could grow produce. I just feel like she didn’t want us to have a beautiful home or something better than hers so she does this. Yesterday was our first night back in the home since traveling for 6 months and my skin crawled THERES bugs in the kitchen, you can smell a weird old water smell he now has to seal up the basement cause when it rains all the water goes to the basement. I feel so bad for my husband he is so kind he can’t even tell what his mom has done was bad for us. I always wanted us to have a beautiful home. I’m now in the process of getting my own townhouse thag is not old dirty and stinky just a place away thag won’t make my skin crawl. :(