What to reply when a guy asks me..... When was your last relationship? I've never had a long...

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Bleed · 41-45, F

Just be honest. It’s a good way to weed out those that aren’t on your level and won’t stick around when things get tough. The right person will appreciate your openness.
I only said to someone today that you don’t get to be single at our age without some sort of relationship trauma or baggage.

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ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69

First of all that is not a question I would have asked someone until I knew her quite well. It seems very nosy.
But if you are asked and you trust the guy enough to answer, I would just be honest about it. I think I've mentioned before that being your first serious boyfriend could be a turn-on for the right man.

Docdon23 · M

be yourself. be honest. You are not alone. Many others struggle with intimacy. There is someone out there for you if you look and open up a little.

Gibbon · 70-79, M

Coral just tell them what you told us. You are good person worthy of being loved. You know it. The type of person you actually need will understand.

JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M

Honesty is always best.

Unless it causes harm, of course. And some things are best kept secret.

I do not know. If things develop he will likely learn, anyway. And he is with you so what came before should not matter. Clean slate.

chuck7882 · 61-69, M

Just tell him that because of health reasons, you never really pursued a long term relationship. He doesn't know you well enough to expect detailed info

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

Be honest about your life.
I only had a teen relationship, nothing serious and I'm not ashamed to say it aloud at all.

GohantheThird · M

Just be honest. "A few casual things here or there, but nothing serious." Then ask him the same.

eyeno · M

Pray Ms. Coral...

Pray this prayer

Abba, as I come before you I bind the Spirit of heaviness according to Matthew 18:18 and loose the garment of praise oil of joy and comfort.
I choose to uproot every root from my life and plant the seeds of the Word that keeps me free.
In Jesus's mighty name I pray
Amen

Nunlover

Just tell them what you told us

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

Say I don’t date a lot.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Be honest, but brief.
Nobody needs a whole book when a chapter will do.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

You gotta love the truth. Less to remember.