Yesterday I upset Shane because I’d posted the picture of his cock. Apparently when he said I could show anyone I wanted he didn’t mean on here. He had already shown his bestie my cunt 🤷🏼♀ and his work friends the pictures of my bruises from our session. His reasoning is she is a body piercer and had a professional curiosity and my bruises weren’t showing anything. I disagree as I wouldn’t have them out on display in public.
Anyway I took it straight down and apologised for the miscommunication. But he’d ignored me all day rather than tell me he was upset. Once he admitted it I tried calling twice and he didn’t pick up. He did call me back later but my that time the full on dreaded sinking panic had already over taken me.
We talked for 2 hours and he said he still wanted me to come over tonight and I felt better. Today I can see he’s reading my messages but is now really slow to respond and hasn’t answered my last one over an hour ago.
Even if I’m blowing things out of proportion and he doesn’t want to break up with me. I do not like this childish behaviour and being made to feel this way. My last ex emotional abused me for 6 months mainly by ignoring me and not coming home and I almost didn’t survive it. I never wanted to feel like that again and thought I’d be stronger.
I don’t even think I’ve fallen that hard for him yet. So this fucking feeling is nothing compared to what it could be.
To make matters more complicated I told Rob I was seeing Shane. He seems okay with it and would like to stay friends and go see the new demon slayer next weekend. He’s messaged me lots today just as Shane is ignoring me 🥺
I feel like I’m heading full speed into a disaster. When I wanted to take my time. 😭
The difference in attitude towards the pics is one was of him vs you. I mean, here nobody knows the real names of either one of youse, usually. We are incredibly unlikely to knowingly meet either one of you in person. It does seem as if he's doing the head games thing here. Beware.
Sorry that happened to you. Hope things don't spin out of control and you crash and burn. It sounds toxic right now but I feel positive it will get better. He just needs to communicate in a way that will make it understandable for the both of you. Keep your options open 😉
@phoenixrising I think people are too quick to label something as toxic. We’ve only known each other a couple of weeks so it’s more likely miscommunication and misunderstandings. For me toxic would be if I tell him how his actions makes me feel and he continues to do it anyway.
He said you could show his cock to anyone, he should have been more specific. But with that being said he should have used discretion with your pics, whether she`s a professional or not. Right now he`s being selfish by not answering you, he needs to man up and explain what`s going on in his head and be honest with you. No beating around the bush.
I am curious did you tell Rob what has gone down between you and Shane this last few days? If so Rob maybe sensing a chance to sneak in and grab you up.
Just my thoughts my dear, I could be way off with them.
@Degbeme I need a straight answer. I can’t live with situations like this. Do I message him to ask if he wants to see me or just turn up when I was suppose to and have it out in person? It’s an hours drive and said I’d text him when I left.
No I’ve only told Rob I’m dating someone else. No details.
@Bleed If you`re up to making the drive there, then do so. That way you`ll find out one way or another. Texting can be so evasive. I do hope you get an answer from him either way, I sure hope it works out for you.
@pdockal Not yet. I’m suppose to be leaving for his after work in 2 hours but he still hasn’t responded to my message from 2 1/2 hours ago which i can see he’s read.
I called my friend and she has said not to text or go round and see what he does. The ball is in his court. She's kind of right but if this is over I don’t want it dragging out. I’d rather get it over with
@GeorgeTBH He messaged just as I was finishing work and I did go to see him. We talked but I’m not sure how I feel about it all now. 😔 Definitely killed the new and exciting vibe.
