I had to really think about this and now i know exactly what you are saying. And i agree with you 100%.

You have to realize that you are common denominator in the situation and that everyone isn't the same or what you're used to. So its going to feel that way at 1st.

I agree with those saying that you haven't met the right person to an extent, but not necessarily because i also believe that you can mold a person sexually into what you need them to be for you. You just have to change your way of thinking.

I've been through it and i know exactly what you are talking about.

I've never met a recently divorced woman who was not in control of her pleasure.

It should be mutual.
In my case though no post divorce intimacy is warranted.

Can you elaborate i'm curious?

Yes you do and sorry if they are selfish.

Hey you, how are ya

The only winners in a divorce are lawyers.

The rest of us must pick up the pieces the best as we can.

I know women have needs

Post divorce intimacy?

It's unfortunate :(

Needs to take care of you first.

Guess you've been with the wrong partners

Yes, it is human need.

You're meeting the wrong guys, @ProudMom46

Divorced women are like Chernobyl -

They’re beautiful but something bad happened, and now they have to be left alone for a while until it’s safe.

Not sure of understanding.
Do you mean post divorce sex with an Ex?

So what was pre-divorce intimacy?