Is it a turn off for guys...

If a woman over 40 has minimal /low dating experience?

I feel some would look down on me. Believe I'm a ' red flag'. I know that means they're not for me then, but still facing that is daunting 🥺

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DragonFruit · 70-79, M Best Comment

You aren't looking for someone who wants an experienced dater....you're looking for someone who can appreciate you for who you are.
Don't view minimal dating experience as a negative...some of us might view that as preferable to a person who dates a lot and never seems to have a lasting relationship.
There are all kinds of men and women in the world, but not everyone is going to be the right person for you. Don't settle for someone who's looking for sex, but find someone who's willing to take the time to get to know and appreciate you.
Start by being someone who appreciates yourself.

Musicman · 61-69, M

@DragonFruit You said that very well. That is excellent advice.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@DragonFruit] Thanks appreciate that 🌷. I guess I'm also referring to not only dating per se, but I haven't had many relationships either. I know some people think it's odd or a flag if someone hasn't had many relationships to speak of. I guess I'd just keep on keeping on, if they feel that way about it. 😕
Appreciate myself, like in take pride in my positive traits?

DragonFruit · 70-79, M

@Coralmist Precisely...you're a good person, don't get down on yourself. Accentuate the positives!

Amyrakunejo · F

@DragonFruit I couldn't of said this any better.