Is it a turn off for guys...

Do not overthink it; it's dating and not spilling everything about myself in one go.
In my opinion, people move way too fast nowadays.
I would insist on real dates as going out to dinner, movies, picnics, events, etc.
No chillin and netflex dates.
Moving in after a short period of dating is a recipe for disaster in my own opinion.
What can you know about a person after a few weeks or months?
If a guy is interested and not just hanging around for sex he isn't going to protest some boundaries or inexperience.
I he does, you will know that is one you should not keep dating, and if you've gone slow and have not heavily invested yourself, it's going to be a lot easier emotionally to break things off.