Is it a turn off for guys...

here's all you gotta do coral....just be kind to yourself, animals, family and fellow peers. don't try to change who you are because you have some crush on a man and want to reel him in. you've stated before you have anxiety issues etc, but don't let that stand in the way of finding a man that you find interesting. throughout history men were thought of as the hunters, the gatherers and providers and i know times have changed but some men still feel that way....there are men out there who are of the traditional mindset that would love to date you...there are plenty of fish in the ocean...ever heard that expression?....my only advice to you is have a little bit of confidence in yourself and show some sass...