Why can't I find men who uplift me ?

Don't ignore the possibility that it's your fault, look deep into this and reevaluate. You may be looking for a "too high lift" or you could be chosing the wrong guys. That being said, it's believed that the qualities of a partner is declining so don't get a standard of men from black and white movies.

Do you weigh more than 200 pounds.
If you weigh more than that it can be a challenge to uplift you.

I think you’re cool

OMG... It's always ME, ME, ME with you.

The external is only a reflection of the internal

When men see us women, some part of theirs gets lifted up.

Damn bro you got a huge Adam's apple