I am not able to trust anyone... i feel everyone are against me... everyone wants to hurt me....😔

@MarkPaul i think i don't have to relate to toxic/evil people!

@MarkPaul but yea i need to know how to form healthy friendships/relationships with normal people.

@sahi81 So, you think you are normal and everyone else is under suspicion of not being normal? 🧔 *Lights pipe and leans forward*

@MarkPaul no, the people i came across or hung out were toxic... not everyone i believe... I heard trauma causes people to subconciously seek out toxic people.

@MarkPaul people i met in other places seem good but i was not able to trust them due to trust issues by people from past... question everuone intentions... it's driving me crazy

@sahi81 Well, how many people do you feel you can trust? 🧔 *Taps pipe and raises eyebrow*

@MarkPaul 0.... i am not able to trust anyone... Btw what pipe? and why r u tapping it?

@MarkPaul idk how to trust...

@sahi81 No, that's not the problem. The problem is you are afraid IF you trust someone, they may betray your trust. You can only control how trustful you are, not anyone else. So, you need to focus on the REAL problem... your fear. 🧔 *Holds up pipe to the light in deep thought*

@MarkPaul u mean i should trust myself that whom i trust and be trustful to myself and others?

@MarkPaul true i can't control or change external things or others....

@MarkPaul f i don't trust anyone, won't i end up feeling alone? But trusting only gets me hurt... i heard it takes time to get to know the other person well.

@sahi81 Which is more important to you... feeling alone or preserving your fear that someone you trust might betray your trust? Because those are the two choices you have selected for yourself. 🧔 *Puts pipe down on the table*

@MarkPaul feeling alone...

@MarkPaul and also my safety as a woman... women are 6x more likely to get killed by an ex-partner in relationships

@sahi81 What about how women push men of steep cliffs, put rat poison in their food, and chop off their... their... you know... their private parts while they are sleeping? 🧔 *Picks up pipe*

@MarkPaul i never heard such cases??? oh god