What personality disorder is this ? You sense something is off you tell them they get very angry and mad that you picked up on it ? 🤔

I really want to know what this is because I’ve had this happen to me so many times. It happen a few times in my 20s when I was trying to make new friends and recently after this breakup. Whenever I tell them something is off and I’m going to leave they get angry and irate, some even have tried to black mail me into not leaving, or threaten me to not leave. For example the night before I broke up with my ex boyfriend. I started off very clear and direct and told him the vibe is off and I think I need to go. He jumped up with the give me a example. I said I don’t have to give examples, he proceeds to call me a liar. It ended with him telling me the B word over and over again yelling at me to get out. His mom over hearing him and turning around going in her room. Him threatening to call the police on me even though I told him I was leaving, him following me out the door calling me a B. Me telling him that he is Bastard who doesn’t know his father, and laughing at him for bragging about all the girls he made suicidal when in reality he should do it. Then telling him the reason he is so mean to women is because he is a closeted DL who really wants to be with his friend Mike. I’m sorry I couldn’t stay nice but I didn’t yell or scream or fight I spoke up only after being called a B over and over again, all because I said something is off and I’m going to leave. !! I guess my question is why do they get mad that you want to leave when the whole time they are with you they act like they hate you, envy you, act jealous of you, probably smear your name and smile in your face.

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Notladylike

If it’s a pattern with several different people did you consider you may be the issue?

Lexiitexii · 31-35, F

@Notladylike Actually not I can honestly say what you see is what you get. I’m alwsys good to people but even in the argument he called me weak. I’m weak to these people for being good to them. Im weak for not reacting to him as he is taunting me with the B word. There’s no winning with people like this. They go for people like me who are open, honest and giving. These people treat ppl like me so terrible then when we leave the threaten us. It’s sick and I’ve even had a brother do this to me. I don’t talk to him now he said if I send him back to Michigan he is going to spread nasty rumors and lies to my grandma about me. I sent him back and never spoke to him again. This girl that I was helping in my 20s I tried to end the friendship she said if I leave her at Walmart she will pop all my tires and also tell everything I ever told her to my enemies.

Lexiitexii · 31-35, F

@Notladylike The only thing I’ve done wrong is give these people amo, I should stop venting to people once I get close to them, and telling them things they could later use against me. Especially if I shared child hood traumas and issues in my past. These days you just can’t do that. I seen a post about your sharing things to express how you over came things and still try and the whole time bad people are rubbing their hands together with things to use against you .