I just got into a argument with my boyfriend and don’t know how to fix it. He made a comment about a friend ordering a mail order bride.
When it comes to defending women sometimes I go to hard. He made a comment about his gross slob of a friend ordering a mail order bride so that he can get a woman. He explained that those women have it way harder and would appreciate being married. I said ther s more you can do to help those women than buying them like slaves to have ownership of. He said I wasn’t seeing his point of view and that I wouldn’t understand because my country is not going through wars and being b*ombed. From there I said what’s makes him think women recovering from war and assault are even ready to get married or even married for the right reasons. To be honest I’m sick of his loser friend putting these things into his head. He is going to look up and be just like his friend a sick lonely overweight single dad. The house is so dirty the wife would be a slave literally. Also this man is a ex marine with ptsd who knows what kind of abuse he would put her through. It cause a fight with me and my boyfriend and I said I don’t want to come over. Then he said he doesn’t want me to come over and I said well I don’t want to come over and he said okay then let’s make it 3 days then. Then I hung up on him. I’m just sad. I can’t believe my boyfriend is one of those guys and his mom is a single mom, he is white man who never got to meet his dad. Why does he take it out on women SHOULDNT he be mad at men and not follow in behind losers. ? Over all he is so caring and sweet and I was in love but he is changing. I sense mommy issues or daddy issues.