Why is polyamory so hated in the US?

The USA has a false sense of purity. It's not just polyamory but make bisexuality is still looked down on as bisexuality in females is more accepted.

The myth of "Judeo-christian values"

Hiatorically speaking contrary to the other parts of the world, polyamory, bisexuality and other "unconventional" lifestyles are new to the US. Hence the resistance

Why do you think this is a uniquely US problem (among Western nations)?

It really feels unfair. If you aren't giving yourself totally to your partner, then you are cheating them. You also can't give yourself totally if you are spreading yourself around

If everyone knows about it and is treated well and equal and gets along is a group I see nothing wrong with it as long as everyone benefits and it's in mutual agreement

People can live as they please if they’re consenting adults and not hurting anyone.

I have an issue with polygamy but not polyamory although I would never participate in it

I'm in the US and I LOVE sharing 🤗😋😘

Call it open marriage or polyamory, it's only going to work with the right people and mindset

It is disliked (I wouldn't say hated) in all western countries because it is contrary to our traditional view of morality.

The system we have now protects women and children - marginally.
People who are safe and secure enough to try polyamory often can also abuse others, using the monogamy system. They're pretty common and made me think that polyamory was a totally sick scam for decades.

I have always been perplexed by that when no one is being hurt by it.

It doesn't seem to make any sense. Yes, there could be negative outcomes but that is true in every relationship, so should all relationships be banned?

Because the United States of America was founded by religious outcasts who thought europe was getting to calvelier in their relationships...

It is? What makes you say that? See a LOT of Americans dabbling in this.

Yeah, unless She leaves her husband And two children, to be in a polyamory relationship 🙄😢😡

it sonly marriage they dont agree with, if oyu liv ein sin thye dont mind

Sharia Now!!!

Gateway to pedophilia

Such an odd thing, and with all those people judging it many of them cheating on their spouse.

The simple amswer is christianity and its stress on monogamy. A better explanation is the baby boom following ww2. And ultimately patriarchy

I guess that you need to look at the ones that survive till well into old age and real frailty

Also "horn-dog" men feel left out. And its generational

Is it hated? Sure, there will be lots against it but I’m not sure it often rises to hate?

There are multiple reasons.

1) Projection: Some people are just wired for mono. They do not have the ability to romantically love more than one person at a time and they project that upon other people. Because they can't do it, they believe that people in poly relations are not experiencing what they consider actual love.

2) Religious polygamist groups got up to some really shady shit and people assign guilt by association even if polyamory and other polygamist arrangements have nothing to do with the bad behaviors of those cults.

3) There is a huge sense of ownership in US relationships. People act like they own their partner. Seeing a partner with someone else is viewed as a betrayal of that ownership. This aspect doesn't just affect views on polyamory, but it is also behind the way even monogamous relationships tend to explode when they end and people who once liked each other end up hating each other.

You might find your answer when asking why it's so hated in all those other countries

It’s not