Mordechai · 31-35, M
Tbh I've had the same experience dating as I just got into my 30s. A lot of people either had kids or pretty bad mental health issues, one was great but it just didn't work out.
I think comparatively to what we grew up looking at, the economy is a lot harsher than when our parents were at the same point. I had to move back in with family because of the energy, food and general economic crisis in my country while I finished a degree and worked.
My two neighbors have kids around my age and late 20s, they both work and they both can't afford to rent anywhere either 😬
I think many of us will date later in life, it's taking longer for people to find their feet. It's either that or looking at dating in a different way.
I think comparatively to what we grew up looking at, the economy is a lot harsher than when our parents were at the same point. I had to move back in with family because of the energy, food and general economic crisis in my country while I finished a degree and worked.
My two neighbors have kids around my age and late 20s, they both work and they both can't afford to rent anywhere either 😬
I think many of us will date later in life, it's taking longer for people to find their feet. It's either that or looking at dating in a different way.
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@Mordechai Thanks for admitting it like a lot of people try to gaslight and act like what I’m experiencing is non existent.
Vestorius · 41-45, M
So what do you have to offer? No offence but I am curious to know...
Bleak · 36-40, F
Whether one likes it or not.
Money matters in the end.
Money matters in the end.
come2gether · 46-50, M
Well that was a load off of you, wasn't it. Hope you feel better!
JamesBugman · 56-60, T
Humans are hard to deal with and with the economy the way it is going makes that even more challenging. Then there is the honesty thing, where guys just want to have sex, and are willing to lie to get it.
Join a church? Maybe there are normal people in that lot.
Sports would be good too.
Join a church? Maybe there are normal people in that lot.
Sports would be good too.
Gingerbreadspice · F
In your 30s is when someone might become single again after a relationship breakdown. I know a couple of guys like this. Shit things happen to everyone and it doesn’t seem to matter where we’re but where we are going. At least in our 30s we can afford to drink good wine on a date and hold a conversation.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
not every man in their 30s has a messy life, seems to me like you pick the wrong men 🤷🏽♂️
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@Moneyonmymind I don’t think so but you could be right they are wrong for me. They are nice guys well some but it’s like something is always lacking.
Moneyonmymind · 31-35, M
@Lexiitexii and also nobody is perfect, I guarantee that guy you’re looking for either doesn’t exist or there’s too few of them you won’t find