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chelseabi · 22-25, F
maybe a man has already been in a long term relationship dosnt know why they broke up, so knocked his confidence and dosnt or forgot how to talk to women and maybe also when another woman talks and smiles at him thinks their just being polite, if there’s someone you really like try telling them you really like them (I know it’s not a girls place to do that but you never know if he’s had knock backs or is a bit shy because his confidence is shot then it’s worth a try) or it could be that a lot of men just think that girls/women are too wackadoodle lol

graphite · 61-69, M
A guy who approaches a woman when he has a romantic interest, when there is no mutual interest, risks being labeled a creep and being humiliated. Not worth the risk.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Some of the good men are shy and cant deal with a pretty woman. They are embarrassed and have a low self esteem. You have to pursue them if you want a relationship
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
@nameless1 Underlockdown made an important point.
@ronisme1 if I'm really into a woman, I get excited when she shows interest in me and/or pursues me
tj78610 · 51-55, M
@nameless1 beg to differ. Loved being chased - felt amazing
Some guys are not confident. But also some are disinclined to make a move when they're not getting clear signs. Do you give any signs to the ones who interest you, like smiling at them? If not, do you seem like you don't want guys to approach you?
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@clairedelune kinda I talk to them, funny, and eye contact and smiling.
@Lexiitexii then in that case, I kinda wonder! In that case, if I was in their position, I'd be thinking, "Woo hoo!"
@Lexiitexii for some context, in what state do you live?
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Well it’s difficult to tell as I can’t see you to make a decision!
I don’t see why men should be scared!
Sevendays · M
Some guys are intimidated by beautiful women.
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Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@jshm2 Not true at all today when we were out our waitress said she thought I was my friends daughter. Also I’m really chill and not crazy or toxic after a year of not seeing my friend and going through the same thing of men being too scared to approach me I asked my friend what she thought that’s all.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
They may be nervous around you BECAUSE they think you’re attractive/they are smitten

I think many people get nervous around their crush
th3r0n · 41-45, M
If you're pretty enough that they're a little scared to get shot down or blow it, you get that reaction
calicuz · 51-55, M
How old are these men?
GerOttman · 61-69, M
I almost never tell a pretty girl she is pretty because I figure she already knows.
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@GerOttman tbh they could use hearing those kind words a lot of people are actually always trying to humble pretty women. To the point some have depression and can’t tell reality. Imagine getting pretty, being clean, caring about your hair your outfit, and smelling good but a guy isn’t brave enough to approach you or tell you you’re beautiful. He literally waited till I left to text my friend he thought I was I pretty and interested when he could’ve told me and asked for my number directly.
@Lexiitexii but I've gotten the impression that a lot of beautiful women don't want to hear from me that they're beautiful as my first compliment. I've figured that then a woman perceives a guy as only wanting to get her in bed...
@Lexiitexii frankly, I only hit on a woman, including telling her that she's beautiful, if I think she's got a good heart, and seems like she's my type, and is more likely to be a good match for something substantial, and not something casual, which isn't my thing. But generally women don't immediately pick that up about me, so usually I don't tell a woman too soon that she's beautiful...
GeniUs · 56-60, M
Can you ask your mate to tell you to stop fishing for compliments. Thank you.
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@GeniUs I’m not phishing for compliments I kept this to myself for a year then asked my friend why do men always tell her that they like me instead of just asking me. That’s all.
They do this because they think that you are way out of their league.
@looking4thesun yes, I think that's likely
Alyosha · 31-35, M
You had me at Wednesday Adams in pink.
Lexiitexii · 31-35, F
@Alyosha 😂😂😂😂
mayguy · 46-50, M
@Lexiitexii And me too! But which Wednesday? 😂
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Sounds like the men are afraid
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
You’re great
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
sounds like they met too many she Harpies from the inner ring of Hades

 
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