Why are some men so persistent?

If they can't take no for an answer, they are clearly only thinking of themselves and not being a good friend.

he's a fecking moron. Lol

Because there's always that chance that someone will cave in and say yes. That's the reason for being persistent on any terms, male or female, work or play. Persistence pays off, eventually.

How old are these boys in men's bodies?
A grown mature man, while it hurts, understands that no is no.

There are so many resources on how to be a woman and so few resources on how to be a man. It is a lost art that few master. There are also some socio economic and societal conditions that have humbled and indeed destroyed masculinity over the past few decades.

When a man is really persistent or demanding of my attention, that’s a red flag for me. If he can’t allow me my space, especially when we don’t know each other that well, he’s asking more than I can give.

Because your resistance is consistently insistent. You present a challenge, babe. And your big, soft brown eyes are irresistable.

They're horny and being persistent works on a lot of women.

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It's not just men who can be persistent
Their's certain people who won't take no for an answer

It's the hunting instinct

Their fragile egos can't accept the concept of NO.

Heh! She said hard! Heh, heh

Telling some (or even many) men that you see them as nothing more than a platonic friend is not telling them no.

Why? Because they are a-holes.

Because that's how we get what we want... plus sometimes it's fun to be a pain in the arse ;)

Some men really do think that you don't mean what you say and that you are just playing hard to get. Just let no be no and if you want to just talk and share let that be enough

That's what men are hard-wired to do. And women are hard-wired to complain about it. 🤣

Because some women has hard to get and see the persistent as a sign of seriously interested.


I honestly used to ask why guys do a ton of sh!t... but then I realized guys just do things that they some how get rewaded for, in one way or another, we are rewarded for our habits and continue what worked for us in the past.


Just to be clear, in no way am I saying it's right ... just that men are simple and do what got them rewarded or saw others rewarded for doing...

Yes they'll keep flirting with you as if you were interested in something with them, it sucks

A 'hard no' contains 'hard'. testosterones will read it has 'HARD'.

Yes. But they can yank it themselves.

I never miss a chance. But that's just me😉

Because sometimes no means maybe, or not right now, or actually no. 😉 So if there is a chance no means yes sometimes we have to be sure, However, some of us know it is better to just leave it alone, but then we wonder if she meant yes when she said no, and that keeps us up at night. Clearly we don't all understand what no means when a woman say no. 😁

you gonna have to cut this dude completely out. scram. outta here.

he's unable to let go of the fantasies in his head.

Maybe they think they can wear you down? lol

They have not yet been smacked upside the head enough.

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I think it might be the illusion that has been put into their heads, that the "friend zone" isn't real. If they can disbelief hard enough, they will break free of it. Sometimes it's just gonna be "friends". I have female friends. No benefits, other than they are fun to hang out with and talk to.

Alternatively: (some, not all) boys are just kinda dumb sometimes/frequently. 🤷‍♂️
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I think it’s a bit scary when they’re super persistent like that. But, I do think shows and movies often romanticize persistent behavior like that in men and I feel some women do the same and then the guy ends up killing then or something 😬😂

Lmao!!! Well was it worth a look ! Lmao

Lol red flags all over

Wow. Harsh

Because some guys just think that friendship between a man and a women can only mean she's interested in more. Not sure why but they can't get it out of their heads. This is the least douche-bag reason I can think of.

No simply means NO. I've been told no many times in my life. Just move on, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

he's feeling for your soft spots

How they bouncin'?

He will selectively read that response as

"....I'm...attracted to you....hard..."

You just can't win with guys like that! 😂

I only wanted to make them smile. Sex was established by the Jocks that you knew you could not compete with.

I lead with my heart and sometimes waist, guys can be dumb, but I do like persistence,

What's worse is they want to accompany that with dick pics. Society is sick

My fave play is the taming of the shrew 😁🕺

They think it will change

Some struggle with boundaries

Because they don't know any better ❤️

I call it diligence 😌

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They want their d touched

Because our peen is ffs

I don’t think you can be friends with him anymore at this point. He clearly doesn’t expect your boundaries so why are you keeping him around?

He’s just going to keep doing it so cut him out of your life, he’s no real friend.