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Are you a fan of Non Monogamous Relationships?

I saw this subject thread on SW this evening. & left a brief comment.

However the subject got me thinking about posting a little bit more on the topic .

Sadly I think its a reflection of the era we are living in. When I was a younger adult . A monogamous relationship was a relationship to be proud of , and certainly the essence was considered to be something worth presevering. Sadly today noone seems to want to take monogamy seriously.

Which ultimately affects the dynamics of any potential one 2 one relationship.

I dont believe in the concept of cheating, because ultimately we have free will & shouldnt try to pretend that we dont.

However more than this I believe in 'Failthfulness' & 'Respecting' the person you are supposed to be committed to . I guess the reality is noone wants to properly commit anymore & its a sad reality..as far as I am concerned.

How can you find commitment with some who steps forward ..then no more ..than a bit.

Might as well lower expectations & throw the towel in .

Goodluck to those who are happily coupled & truly realise the value of 'Exclusivity' 💞
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DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I was in a poly relationship for 5 years. (One man, 3 women). Wouldn't do it again.
@DearAmbellina2113 I'm polyam but embarassed when I hear the stories of other polyam men told at length.

I'm all ears if you ever want to unload about it. And curious too.
I think a lot what gets called Polyamory is often just polygamous dudes building Harems when in reality Polyamory invites both Polygyny AND polyandry.

So if there's a one penis policy it's polygamy being mislabeled. Dudebros be manipulative.

the real thing terrifies most of us. I'm just very secure I guess.