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BootyCutie · 22-25, F
Remember that you don't need the person to accept your refusal. You just need to say it and stick to it. If you'd like, you can add, “I understand this is hard to accept,” or “I wish I felt differently.”

If the person still won't back down, tell him or her that you feel uncomfortable. If that won't work, you may need to physically take them out of your room.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@BootyCutie I really do feel uncomfortable, they know I'm already with someone but don't care and then I bring it up and they pretend like they weren't intending to flirt with me.
BootyCutie · 22-25, F
@JimFarris16 Sometimes "TOUGH LOVE" is best in many situations! Good luck!

I still say she doesn't think you mean what you say, or she wouldn't still be trying. The break room and by yourselves would have been the perfect opportunity to say, "Hey! Knock it off!" The only thing I think you can really do right now is like if you go in the break room again and she's there, if you're not going to say anything to her, then turn right around and go back the other way and avoid her at all costs and at every opportunity and maybe she'll get the hint. Don't look at her, don't smile at her, just completely ignore her and act as if she's invisible. She's a bully and she should be reported. I figured she was a co-worker. You might warn her that unless she stops, you'll report her. Or else have your girlfriend show up after work when she's coming out the door and have her confront her hahaha
@JimFarris16 I'm sure! Plant a bug in his ear..."Heyyyy..."SUMbuddy must have the hots for you. You should see how she eyes you, when you're not looking!" 😂😂😂
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@LadyGrace I told the boss and yeah, she lost her job. I don't like seeing people out of work but I warned her...that experience was like hell.
@JimFarris16 You did the right thing, Jim. I'm so proud of you. Especially for staying faithful to your girlfriend and convictions. Way to go. 🙌 🙏
Madmonk · M
Reverse psychology. Be all needy and clingy. Cry a lot. Text every five minutes.
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@Madmonk Run!
Madmonk · M
@SW-User what do you call a girl from West Virginia who can run faster than her brother?

A virgin
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@Madmonk Omg hahaa I was going to say Clarice.
Where's my fava beans and Chianti? 🙄
Seriously, they're not taking you seriously. 😁 Stop being around the same place they are, if you can. No contact policy. They are either stupid or think you're weak or may eventually give in. You'll have to stay as far away as you can, avoid conversation, and be firmer in your tone/answer and do [b]not[/b] smile when you say it. "You're a nice person, but I told you once and I'm only going to say this once more....I'm happily "taken". I'm not interested in other advances, and that's the bottom line." Then walk away and stop all contact. Some people just don't take hints. 😡
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@LadyGrace she's a co worker and a bullshitter, I've told her I'm taken but then she'll pretend like she wasn't trying to flirt or get me to look at her or touch her. I guess she thinks I'll eventually give in. I unfortunately came down to the break room and she was the only other one there at the time and kept saying she was so cold and giggling at everything I said when it wasn't even funny, I snuck away.
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Wow you mean a girl is like this? i have only experienced the opposite but in any case just tell her she reminds you of your mother... that should do it.
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"I'm not gay, but I'll learn".
meggie · F
Keep scratching your nuts
Tell them you have cooties. lol
BnBSpringer09 · 26-30, F
Quit associating with them completely. If they don't respect your boundaries, there is no need to have them in your life. If they continue to harass you after you've told them to leave you alone, a restraining order may be in order.
BnBSpringer09 · 26-30, F
@JimFarris16 Don't feel bad, it sounds like you gave them ample opportunity to back off, but they refuse to respect you or your boundaries. This is their own doing! If they get in trouble, it is on them!
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@BnBSpringer09 yes, she still tries, we were in the break room and she was saying she was so cold and then bent over in front of me to get something 😳
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@BnBSpringer09 I do kinda feel bad because I was distracted when she bent over, I hated myself.... God forgive me
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Develop feelings for them. They'll soon bugger off!
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You really don't have to do anything. Don't respond. Let their dumbasses keep trying
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Tell them you have herpes.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
hook them up with your friend
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
Yeah I have same problem sometimes
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz he is very good loyal man like my guy so he should not do it with her
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@Collegegirl23 how do you deal with it? I'm inexperienced at this, I think she's convinced I'm gonna give in no matter how many times I tell her no.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@JimFarris16 u must refuse at all times! No matter how much pressure she puts on you! If my guy cheated I would leave him instantly no mercy for cheaters! Just tell her you have Aids or something
InHeaven · F
Fart on them 😆😆😆😆 thats a sure thing to turn it off once and for all.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@InHeaven my farts can be pretty rank, it runs in the family
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Graylight · 51-55, F
File the police report, because after that it's stalking.
😶
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Sleep with them and get it over with 🤷🏽‍♂️
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@SW-User then I'd be cheating
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@JimFarris16 on who ?
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@SW-User My wife
have there friends tell them no.. peer pressure[image deleted]
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
Trap door to the rancor pit
UpForItNow · 22-25, F
Refer this troublemaker to me.
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Restraining order
cycleman · 61-69, M
3some! Their mom included.
jimjim1969 · M
Just give in
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@jimjim1969 wouldn't that be cheating?
empanadas · 31-35, M
Tell them you have aids or something

 
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