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Is it fishy for a 17 year old girl to wanna date a 14 year old boy?

My cousin is only 14 and got a date with a 17 year old high school senior girl.
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yeah, she's about to be in college. meanwhile, he's most likely in or almost out of middle school. Once she turns 18 she's legally an adult and can be charged and placed under Megan's law. why can't she find someone her age?
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Souls Why would she be charged with anything if the boy is fully agreeable. You can't charge a person with a sex crime if no crime has been committed.
@zonavar68 You didn't read what I said; I made this comment because when she turns 18, she will be considered a legal adult; he is underage and, regardless of his consent, he is still a child. I'm not sure where you're from, but in America, you'll be charged, placed on a Megan Law registry, and sent to prison.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Souls the old saying 15 will get you 20 . But Some times the romeo and juliet law is in place
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Souls But why? how do you determine that there's a crime being committed other than by inference based on their ages? I'm in Australia. I don't see how, once the girl becomes 18, she is 'automatically' a criminal once she becomes an adult. Are you saying that unless they are the same age and both turn 18 on the exact same day the one who becomes 18 first is deemed a criminal immediately upon turning 18?
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@zonavar68 US laws
@zonavar68 In America, anyone 18 or older is considered a legal ADULT. By law, it is considered a CRIME to DATE or have any SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS with anyone UNDER 18 years old. In America this is determined based on age, anyone under 18 years old is considered a CHILD. In order for this to be LEGAL, the CHILD would have to be at LEAST 18 years old. If caught, the ADULT could be prosecuted as a sex offender.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Souls Then their is the Romeo and Juliet laws
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Souls he's a freshman in high school, she apparently really likes him despite him being younger than her.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@WendyLopez43 How did those two meet?
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@bhatjc they have the same art class, some of the classes aren't limited to a specific grade at the school.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@WendyLopez43 Understand. Those classes are usual electives classes.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@bhatjc they were at the same table and got to talking late last year, and then she asked him out.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@WendyLopez43 Damn, she asked him out. Thought he would have asked her.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@bhatjc he's the shy and nervous type
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@WendyLopez43 Ok, hope it works out for them. It's the quiet one
@WendyLopez43 How does this make any difference? I'm going to assume she will be chasing young children when she gets older what shocks me is she can't find someone her own age. If this doesn't scream desperate I don't know what does!
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Souls so don't be with someone you love?!
@WendyLopez43 They're both children, they don't know the meaning of love.
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Souls Jesus Christ....🙄
@WendyLopez43 I'm sorry
WendyLopez43 · 26-30, F
@Souls Just saying, I met my husband in high school and we started dating then.