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blindbob I get that .
And if you find its all you....you move on.
It also depends upon the energy you give out ...I know it sounds very hippy-dippy , but it counts.
I mean...I looked at your profile - and it does t say much about who and what you are....what you desire, your past or where you are in life.
And , I'm guessing, from your recent posts....yoire not in the best spot atm.
...youre energy is low.
And I think ,,that when people are at a point they are trying to connect online ....all our energy is compromised...many of us don't have a lot to give out.
But I can say this ....if your main reason to connect to others is for a close romantic relationship...I truly believe tjere is such a thing as the "scent of desperation".....people pick up on it .
And learning to be satisfied within oneself first, is a huge step in being attractive to others.
Many are givers ....but they cant do it 100% of the time ....in fact, givers often need down time and need to be given to .
And as much as I'm taking a stab.in the dark and guessing you're interested in the Dom/sub dynamic, you may be interested to understand that tje true power lies with the sub.
And tjat Dom's need care and recovery time -.its exhausting being the one directing the control .
There is yin and yang in every state , Dom or sub, they are still a bit of each .
I think, relax , stop trying , and indulge in who you are in a positive manner ....that is a good thing not only for yourself, but gives 0tjers a chance to see you who you are .