Some advice in the age of dating apps PLEASE

I don't form attraction or attachments based on words or gifts. I'm drawn in by good deeds and actions, like someone helping me with a difficult chore or task, or if I see you doing something selfless for someone else. So I guess you could say my love language is acts of service. This makes dating online very difficult because it's all words. Either it's all endless small talk or the guys lay it on so thick, so much false flattery and compliments, so much boasting. It completely turns me off. I get so bored and detached.