In a relationship if he/she cheats, if you find out how many chances would you give that person, if you truly love them?

Just a slight break up and he would end up calling an ex. @FoolishLuna

@MrsCurious he is not committed to you… just sayin

@MrsCurious break up?


Then that's a different situation.

@FoolishLuna I think it is the responsibility of the cheater to communicate issues he or she is having in the relationship instead of being a disloyal, selfish coward.

@FoolishLuna I wouldn’t care what their problem is. If I gotta be faithful and miserable then so does he unless we decide on a divorce.

@Keepitsimple There are other options. Doesn't have to be a binary choice.

@dancingtongue no other choice for me unless my kids were still young in which case I would stay with the sleazeball because my paycheck went to my kids and all their activities l, food and hotels. There would be no sex or family functions though and once all the kids were done I’d leave his ass. For me it’s easy. I married young and doing what I want to do is not a bad thing to look forward to.

@Keepitsimple If that is how you feel about your personal options, I understand. My point was intended generally -- that some find open marriages, hall passes, other options -- but they are not for everyone.

@dancingtongue Nah. I’d want to be done, I’m not into all that weird stuff with open marriages and I certainly wouldn’t touch his shlong ever again anyway. I’d throw up all over him..