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How long until you knew that your partner was "the one?

CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
I'm still test driving him. 🙃 --DW
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CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Nah, I refurbed him and he drives great now. 😊
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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
honestly, the first date! at the end of the evening I still enjoyed being with her and wanted the evening to never end. we have been married 48 years!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
i do understand your situation. I was just explaining that I can be as straight laced as you need, regardless of my postings. this delay on a posting is why I think pms work better, but I am here to help you.
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@samueltyler2: As stated, 'clean' dialogue please. I appreciate your honesty and decency. Again, I sincerely apologize for misunderstanding on my part. I'm in need of a break, so have a nice day!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
sure. if you want more dialogue, you will have to figure out how to let me know.
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
Having one person be "the one" is too much burden for any person and leads to eventual unhappiness when they can't live up to the unrealistic standard.
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
I agree, which makes me wonder if "the one" exists? For some, maybe if a couple are stable in their own identity that there would be no need to want to be with another person....What I mean is since we all evolve, the person you're with now isn't necessarily the person that fits into your life later, any there are other factors, too....
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@wanderlinglilacs22: Like the term "soulmate". Don't like that word either.
tnjazz · 70-79, M
about a month
tnjazz · 70-79, M
Not really.I met her in a bar on what they call a wing man kind of thing now.The more we got to know each other, the more we hung together. Clicked and stayed together for even longer. Sometimes things just work out right
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@tnjazz: hmm so true. It's nice to just instantly connect with someone
tnjazz · 70-79, M
It wasn't instantly, but it wasn't long. I don't believe in love at first sight. Like at first sight is something different. Like can become love, but you can't force it to be that way
SW-User
2 kids later and still not sure
Sonya09 · F
After he died
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
best wishes to you! My hope for you is that your life brings many wonderful things until your are reunited :)
FunReader55 · 51-55, M
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
I've heard stories, ranging from the first sight or within a few months :) feel free to share your stories! :)
Aidan · 26-30
I'm never sure about these things I don't think I'll ever know it's been 3 years already
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
Regardless, I hope both of you make each other feel loved :)
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
There is no such thing
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
I agree that "the one" is so loosely used today. I hope you find a love that's genuine and true, if you aren't in one already :)
And how did you know?
wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
If you're asking me personally, I haven't yet... and you?
SW-User
Haven't met the one yet. I think???
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wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@Stereoguy: You're very fortunate :) thanks for sharing!
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wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@Stereoguy: thank you for sharing again; I wish I could express less flimsy words for how sad this must be. I wish you and them all well, enjoying what the rest of this life has to offer until you are reunited with your loved ones :)
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wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F
@danziger: Congrats! I hope to as lucky, one day.... :)
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