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FlowersCelestialPhd · 22-25, M
If having kids is not a goal for you both then focus on the present and live your life as she advances in her careers

SW-User
Uh, no. Marriage isn't just about kids. There are many married couples in the world without kids, either by choice or by medical reasons. Marriage is about committing to your loved one and becoming a family. Not just making a family.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@SW-User It's always been a dream of mine to get married, it's just my mom expects grankids and I'm not sure how to tell her I don't want to have them.
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@JimFarris16 You just straight up tell her. "Mom, I'm sorry, but I don't want to have kids. Neither of us do."
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JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@MonaLisa86 she said she never wants kids
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 If you want kids and she doesn’t then getting married won’t fix that problem.
justanothername · 51-55, M
Potentially. Ideally you want to make sure that you both want the same things out of life before you decide to get married. Personally I’d say 16 is too young to think about getting married. Wait till you are 20. Enjoy life in the mean time.

What does your girlfriend want to do for a career?
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 how old is she now?
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 that’s a good choice
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
You don’t need to be married to have kids.

Getting married is just betting someone half your stuff, that you’ll stay together forever.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
Well u don't need to get married at all. If u two truly love each other u two don't need a piece of paper
25 is the best time since the brain is developed then
Your bank account thanks you.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@PrincessVelvet I do also like the idea of not having a little Jimmy around to interrupt alone time lol.
No. You get married for love. Also for tax benefits.
Just enjoy being together
You’re too young for marriage.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@LilithoftheTrees I won't be for long!
@JimFarris16 wait till you’re 30.

 
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