Is it pointless to get married if you don't want kids?
My girlfriend and I wanna get married but she wants to focus on her future career and says she doesn't have time for kids, and I don't think I'd be a good parent at all.
18-21, M
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justanothername · 51-55, M
Potentially. Ideally you want to make sure that you both want the same things out of life before you decide to get married. Personally I’d say 16 is too young to think about getting married. Wait till you are 20. Enjoy life in the mean time.
What does your girlfriend want to do for a career?
What does your girlfriend want to do for a career?
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@justanothername I'm almost grown actually
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 physically maybe but mentally you still have a way to go.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@justanothername she wants to be a lawyer BTW
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 how old is she now?
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@justanothername 18
justanothername · 51-55, M
@JimFarris16 that’s a good choice