How old were you when you lost your virginity?

@VirginMatchmaker Jesus. When I'm your age my story is really gonna suck looking back being older than you were pal.

@zeframcochrane I was years older than most of my peers. There were kids of 11 and 12 having sex in my school.

@VirginMatchmaker The part in my life where I felt really embarrassed and unattractive and wondered what the fuck I did wrong was when a guy who's like 300 lbs and talks about women really disgustingly told me how he had sex when he was 12 and was insulted when his girlfriend at the time (he was 25 and I was 19) automatically assumed he was a virgin.

Fast forward 5 years now and he's married with a kid, which is what I want, but he and his wife have massive issues and I'm sorry to say but he's aged like 20 years in 5 years.
At least being single forever has allowed me to improve and keep up my appearance and I've gotten ripped during the pandemic.
The skinny loser in school is ripped now.

@zeframcochrane so if your ripped you should have women falling over themselves at you. So what's going on.
Look I'm useless with women but I've been married twice and both failed. I'm massively overweight but my partner is 14 years my junior.
What I'm trying to say is that if I can, then I'm sure you can.

@VirginMatchmaker Well. I'm friends with a dominatrix who is sort of like an older sister to me now. Lovely, sweet lady. And she's helped me a lot in my life and according to her...my personality.
Not sure what she meant by that, I intend to interrogate her but she's going through her own stuff right now.
Of course that was a year ago when I hadn't yet undergone a lot of change.

Tbh I just don't know. Women were never "falling over themselves" at me so that's just a dream, ripped or not.
But, good to know anyone can.