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What is the best way for a girl to make the first move on a guy??

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lisasama · 31-35, F
Emptying his bank account.. duh😬
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meJess · F
when he's not looking
wudifu · 46-50, M
Dont. Let him be the man and come for you
wudifu · 46-50, M
No u can. But a man would feel like if he likes you you are taking away his repsonsibility as a man. But just as friends or if u feel like u want to make the first move. You are entitled to do that
@wudifu: It depends on the man. I asked a man I admired to coffee and he didn't take it amiss at all. We eventually got married and were quite happy.
wudifu · 46-50, M
awesome.......im happy fort you.....
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Pretzel · 70-79, M
@NaughtyAmber:* grins *
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harley06105 · 51-55, M
I like the conversation one. Asking if they're single is another way that immediately lets them know you're interested in getting to know them better. If they're not single, or if they hesitate because they're dating someone, then you have to know ahead of time preferably how you're going to proceed. If you're willing to try to pry them away from someone, or make them cheat, then you have to be prepared to be flirty and be rejected and walk away if that's how they respond. Give them you're number or tell them where you work or how to get a hold of you if anything changes. If they're single and they're interested in you, then they'll certainly tell you. Grabbing their junk is likely to disgust a man as much as it is a woman, believe it or not. Most men probably wouldn't admit to this, but it's true. If they're single and you are too, then you have something in common. Point that out. "Hey we have something in common, I'm single too. Maybe we could get a drink sometime. Can I give you a call? Or maybe I should give you my number?" Something along those lines. Unless you're up for something then and there, but you also don't want him to think you're a one-night-stand (unless you do) or a slut or that you do this often. That's my advice ... Have you told him yet?
just let them know you're interested, speak to them.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Respond to his questions
SW-User
Compliment him on his looks ☺
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
Well in this day and age I believe asking how one thinks the evening is going to end ,, if you like the person this would solve a lot of awkward moves ,,,
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best best? probably with a smile; depending on how things unfold from there add as needed.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
If you are in that profile photo, a smile would start the cascade!
Lilred2289 · 36-40, F
Never make the first move :)
KnightRanger · 56-60, M
Just drop me a note and say "hi!" ;-)
TheTeacher · 36-40, M
Send him a message or or smile and wave, or compliment him
wudifu · 46-50, M
just be yourself and look at him
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
No kidding
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
@msvirginia: I would love for a female to offer blowjob. But I would think really what do you really want. Like rod me or Somthing.
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AlienZipper · 61-69, M
Hopefully he's smart enough to recognize that you're interested in him in the first place...but some guys are really slow at picking up such signals...
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AlienZipper · 61-69, M
@1980vim: that is true...
Go up to him and tell him that she thinks he is cute and would like to talk sometime and ask if she could have his number. I am 90% sure he would give it to her so long as he isn't in a relationship. If he is in a relationship he would most likely just be flattered.
Badass427 · 36-40, M
Take him lunch (not McDonald's!) And a ice cold beer...then he'll realize your super cool and then it'll all come together perfectly
JustADude · 61-69, M
You can do literally anything. You can slap him in the face. You can tell him he is disgusting. Doesn't matter - he will think you are into him as long as you initiate something.

We're weird that way.
bitch!
invite him out for coffee and just use the time to get to know him better.
MrGoodbar · 51-55, M
OMG this Post is full of opportunities to reply this should keep me busy for a few days.
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tinyweeny · 70-79, M
just walk up and say hello and tell him you would like to get to know him
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SW-User
That's easy. You say, "Hey".... then it's on!
Pretzel · 70-79, M
rophypnol

never a rejection or long drawn out conversation :)
jarinm · 56-60, M
If you want try something with me and I will tell you if it would work
RobbyLong · M
For no particular reason open by saying to him, "wow, you're so big."
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
I have been given the sign when she places a hand on my upper thigh ,,,
Nicenlong · 41-45, M
Get straight to the point
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A conversation would be a got start.
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Cr3ami · 36-40, M
say more than just hi!
Bustoff77 · M
I cant speak for all guys but I had a women give me her panties at a friends wedding a while ago ! It worked pretty quick too ! It had the desired affect 😈
cycleman · 61-69, M
fully exhibit cleavage and have all his attention in awe as he is mesmerized. Then bend forward so he can see so much more.
MicroCuck · 51-55, M
just lay like that
flimflam · M
Just call me!
Finerthings · 56-60, M
a wink, a smile
Joeeeeeeyyyy · 80-89, F
Looking at him
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Tukudo · 41-45, M
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
be yourself and start a conversation
billstickers · 36-40, M
hand between his legs and say oh you are a big boy then.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
Say hi- introduce yourself... go from there
Nicenlong · 41-45, M
Just pm me lol x
Joeeeeeeyyyy · 80-89, F
Or ignore him
uncleshawn · 41-45, M
One of the best ways, depending on the situation and how "hot" the interest is, is to glance at a guy's crotch. A couple of obvious glances, or even just one, is a great way to start something, often something fast....in my experience. I have a couple good stories related to this that I can share sometime.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
smile your best smile - and lightly touch his arm and make sure he knows you are available. If that doesn't work - ask him if you may kiss him - he is a dullard if that doesn't get his attention

 
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