Controversial: Does a person's past matter to you? Can you be honest about it?

Hate me if you want, but yes, the past does matter. Sure, you may not be banging entire neighborhoods now, but you still did. That was part of the foundation of your life. If I ever suffered brain damage and decided to date again, no, I wouldn't look for a virgin. That's not fair, I'm not a virgin. But I still have limits.

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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

I do believe there is such thing as too much experience.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

Yes. I believe their actions say a lot about their character and what they are capable of.

Jill1990 · 31-35, F

I was sexually active at an early age and I’m not ashamed. I’m married to a wonderful man and the past where it belongs - in the past. I’m not a bad person and and I don’t think I’ll cause him to go to hell or anything.

questionWeaver

I am a victim of the "I can not compete with your life" syndrome

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@questionWeaver i know a guy who's sexual history is so gross it made me uncomfortable in fact i think it upset me.

questionWeaver

@PaleandPolluted he would be one to toss back into the sea ... sad to realize he is likely oblivious to it

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@questionWeaver i think he knows its controversial.

biandlargeny · 56-60, M

If it's a concern get checked out before getting sexual.

bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M

Eh, not really... Although I'm very surface level when it comes to relationships so eh... Probably not the right person to ask.. I know she got 10 other dudes blowing up her phone so, eh. ┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ/

WillaKissing · 56-60

I agree about the past with you 100%, but my quandary is if I ever decided to date again myself. How does my present life and lifestyle choices affect/affects a woman's decision to date me.

Konicha605 · 22-25, F

no, it doesn't matter to me. people could change and i believe it can be possible, it's mainly me not trusting them tho

bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M

@Konicha605 .... Not related but, big ups to the 2B pic tho. ┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ/

exexec · 61-69, C

I would like to say her past doesn't matter, but it would be nice to know if her last four lovers died horrible, unexplained deaths.

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