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My boyfriends sister hates me. How do I deal with this?

My boyfriend and I had a bit of drama that made us split twice. (Workplace rumors and dislike from this sister) We recently decided that despite the rumors and hate from his sister we belong together and want to make something work.

I've tried being friendly with her and I'm only met with disdain. She hates the fact that I come over and sleep over at my boyfriend's request and I'm not sure how far she'll go to keep me away. I just heard her angrily complaing over the fact that I'm sleeping over because his house is closer to work and I had to close tonight and open tomorrow. We aren't even talking, I literally just came in to sleep. I guess he didn't say anything because he didn't feel the need to and she's furious, to the point where she had to leave the house because I guess she's that upset. She's also the kind of girl to overreact and take things way out of context and react volitaly to said things.

Is there any advice you guys can give me? I don't know what to do about this but I really don't want to cause a problem. I really love this man, however, and I'm not willing to back down because she has a weird grudge against me. I just want to get along with her and have her stop hating me for no good reason that either him or me can figure out.

I'm also a bit scared for my car at the moment because I heard her saying she was going to grab her bat after coming back from leaving.

So yeah. Some advice would be great.
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Maybe she's used to getting what she wants. There's nothing you can do about it. However, your boyfriend can. It's his sister after all! She doesn't have any right to interfere in his love life if you're not creating any trouble for the family. Talk to him about it and tell him to handle her. He should, if he wants you around.
Ginkofishin · 26-30, F
He's been talking to her but I don't think either of us realized how much she hates me until tonight. She went off for 15 minutes to her friend before leaving in a huff. My boyfriend slept through the whole thing. I plan on talking to him tomorrow.
@Ginkofishin: whaaa ! No offense, but he seriously need to grow a pair and deal with this bullshit ! If she hates you for no apparent reason at all, that's her being a stuck up lil *** ....Tell him to make it clear to her that you're not going anywhere and to get used to it.