Considering telling ex-emotional affair partner's husband

Title pretty much says it all.

I'm considering sending him our text screenshots. Some of them are just us flirting back and forth and some are her telling me how terrible he is and I'm considering sending them to him to hurt her worse than she hurt me. She used me.

One one hand I still love her and if I do this I know everything is done.

On the other, she deserves it and this poor clueless bastard is just dashing around buying her flowers for Valentine's Day after she spent months telling me her marriage was over and used me.

Don't know what I want to do just yet. Not sure how bad a person I am for even considering it.

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SW-User

I’ve been here. A couple of guys had significant others and I was the side boo🙄 I decided that the best thing to do was have them figure it out themselves. Love can be blind and deaf🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@SW-User Think I landed on where I'm at with this a while ago.
Seeing her posts back on Valentine's Day just made me feel depressed, angry and resentful and hurt.
For a moment I wanted to hurt her the way she hurt me.
But I can't do it.

SW-User

@zeframcochrane I totally get it. I went through those feelings. I was like why the hell did that guy chase me when he had a beautiful girlfriend or fiancée

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@SW-User To be fair I was the one pursuing here but there was a lot of reciprocation, at least in the beginning, and she was clearly after the attention. After the break we took for 6 months, everything had changed.

SW-User

@zeframcochrane The males were the pursuers as well 🤷🏽‍♀️I reciprocated until I figured out that there was a girlfriend of three years for one and a future Mrs Cheater for the other 😝

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