Considering telling ex-emotional affair partner's husband

Title pretty much says it all.

I'm considering sending him our text screenshots. Some of them are just us flirting back and forth and some are her telling me how terrible he is and I'm considering sending them to him to hurt her worse than she hurt me. She used me.

One one hand I still love her and if I do this I know everything is done.

On the other, she deserves it and this poor clueless bastard is just dashing around buying her flowers for Valentine's Day after she spent months telling me her marriage was over and used me.

Don't know what I want to do just yet. Not sure how bad a person I am for even considering it.

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nowic2 · 61-69, M

You sound like a little kid. You have been hurt so have to hurt in return. Childish & petty!
Time to grow up. If you're smart you will use it as a learning experience & grow from it. Better than being small minded & bitter.
All the best with your choices.

crownedwithlaurel97 · 26-30, F

what was the point of flirting with a married woman

questionWeaver

Nonsense ... that action is selfish, immature, destructive and way below a man ... any man.

In my opinion ....

SW-User

I’ve been here. A couple of guys had significant others and I was the side boo🙄 I decided that the best thing to do was have them figure it out themselves. Love can be blind and deaf🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@SW-User To be fair I was the one pursuing here but there was a lot of reciprocation, at least in the beginning, and she was clearly after the attention. After the break we took for 6 months, everything had changed.

SW-User

@zeframcochrane The males were the pursuers as well 🤷🏽‍♀️I reciprocated until I figured out that there was a girlfriend of three years for one and a future Mrs Cheater for the other 😝

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HootyTheNightOwl

Everything is done either way... what's the point in making a bad situation even worse for yourself, particularly if he decides to come after you.

It would be a better use of your time and energy to invest in picking up the remains of your dignity and moving on with your life.

SStarfish ·

Nothing like good intentions

Vetrov · 61-69, M

Used you?

Like a Mills and Boon?

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Terrible idea. The dude could come after you...or even her. You have no idea how it will be received. Some people are just emotional vampires, keep moving on.

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