Does your spouse know?

@Carissimi: That's art of our problem. She has a vast network of friends, acquaintances family and the like while not being comfortable withe having my own friends.
When we out she monoplies all attention I may get and tries buts I to the middle of things usually sitting in front of me with her back to me.
Then I have no problems withettinf her know how untoward that is and she usually gets embarrassed by it and we end up living.
The she is on the phone for days afterwards telling all she knoww how and ass and a jerky, ( I really mind you), and her people using respond with trying to get her to leave me
If I am around my own friends and she is around its the same thing.
So now she is finally moving out, I have a few friends interested in moving in.

@Dorkgerdo: So in essence, she is not supportive or encouraging your wellbeing. That's not good. I wish you well, G, in your new life.

@Carissimi: Oh she is, she really is, so.long as it condos to her wishes and I have NEVER been to co going tyle. Took her 26 years to figure it out.
Thanks l you for the well wishes miss it already is well.
Have two.friends interested in moving in and helping out.
My wife was kinda iffy about have to women living with me but it's not about sex or a physical relationship, once about friend ship and intamcy on a platonic level.

I only come here to check in on friends. I don't really spend much time here. I do miss my friends too much to stay completely away.

@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic: Like you, I'd probably check in at times, but even now, I don't post much (nothing like I did on EP).

@Carissimi: To each his own, Carissimi. Often people hide SW from their partners as they are not as free as they would think. I hide nothing. I am open and confident and lack jealousy. Good luck to you.

@PoetryNEmotion: I don't have a partner to hide anything from, however, what confidence and jealousy has to do with this, I don't know. It's called respect for one's privacy.

People talk about things here they can't share in real life. I respect their choice not to share their private lives (as many do) for the world, and their neighbors to see. It's good to see some people have decorum and not identify partners with whom they are having problems.

@Carissimi: I hear you. You sound a bit angry. We can agree to disagree. Sometimes people come here to get sound advice about relationships. It is all good, Carissimi, chill.