Does your spouse know?

I understand some hide SW from others. Why can't people just be authentic? It is sad.

@PoetryNEmotion: Can one not have anything for themselves anymore? What is my business is *my* business. I'll share what I want to share, and the rest I keep to myself. I don't need every Tom, Dick, and Harry in my personal life.

@Carissimi: To each his own, Carissimi. Often people hide SW from their partners as they are not as free as they would think. I hide nothing. I am open and confident and lack jealousy. Good luck to you.

@PoetryNEmotion: I don't have a partner to hide anything from, however, what confidence and jealousy has to do with this, I don't know. It's called respect for one's privacy.

People talk about things here they can't share in real life. I respect their choice not to share their private lives (as many do) for the world, and their neighbors to see. It's good to see some people have decorum and not identify partners with whom they are having problems.

@Carissimi: I hear you. You sound a bit angry. We can agree to disagree. Sometimes people come here to get sound advice about relationships. It is all good, Carissimi, chill.