Does your spouse know?

Does your spouse of significant other know you are on SW and chatting with other people? If not do you feel guilty?

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

It's no different than conversing with people in real life, except we may divulge more about ourselves here.

This is part of my personal space. I don't have a significant other, but if I did it would still be my personal space.

Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

That's the way I wanted to say it, that and what NigilDoes said, I wouldn't be with someone so I secure, they would have issues with a little personal space.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

@Dorkgerdo: We all need our personal space. I think the older we are, the more we need it.

Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

@Carissimi: That's art of our problem. She has a vast network of friends, acquaintances family and the like while not being comfortable withe having my own friends.
When we out she monoplies all attention I may get and tries buts I to the middle of things usually sitting in front of me with her back to me.
Then I have no problems withettinf her know how untoward that is and she usually gets embarrassed by it and we end up living.
The she is on the phone for days afterwards telling all she knoww how and ass and a jerky, ( I really mind you), and her people using respond with trying to get her to leave me
If I am around my own friends and she is around its the same thing.
So now she is finally moving out, I have a few friends interested in moving in.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

@Dorkgerdo: So in essence, she is not supportive or encouraging your wellbeing. That's not good. I wish you well, G, in your new life.

Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

@Carissimi: Oh she is, she really is, so.long as it condos to her wishes and I have NEVER been to co going tyle. Took her 26 years to figure it out.
Thanks l you for the well wishes miss it already is well.
Have two.friends interested in moving in and helping out.
My wife was kinda iffy about have to women living with me but it's not about sex or a physical relationship, once about friend ship and intamcy on a platonic level.