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What do you think about friends with benefits?

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SW-User
@MysterySci it just starts fun and ends messy
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@SW-User It didn't even start out fun, it was just like my only way to hold on to a person who didn't want it.
SW-User
@MysterySci all too common
If my friends have their own benefits (medical, dental, etc.), then good for them!

If they offer ME such benefits for being their friend, then good for ME.

😉😆😆😆
bugeye · 26-30, F
it's unfortunate not everyone can find work and need to claim benefits. times are tough all around but they're my friends so i'll help if i can.
It’s a recipe for disaster. Someone’s heart will eventually be broken.
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
not afraid to say i’m an extremely big fan
Doomflower · 36-40, M
Fun but not super fulfilling
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MysterySci · 22-25, F
@seeandhear What are you guys now?
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SW-User
Friends with benefits = soliciting sex workers
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@SW-User howwwww
andreafg · 22-25, F
@SW-User If you do it for work then it's not friends...
SW-User
😂 ☺️

@MysterySci @andreafg
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
That’s fine if it’s like one or twice a year.
Driver2 · M
@Keepitsimple sounds like a plan
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@Driver2 🥰
SW-User
I could never get into the “sex without feelings” mode.

Hence, I don’t understand how people can do it.
SW-User
@MysterySci Someone always ends up lying about something.

I’ve known friends who can do it but they always seemed morally corrupt in the first place (they sleep around behind their partner’s backs).
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@SW-User Like, you mean, they sleep around behind the back of the "friend with the benefit" person? : 3
SW-User
@MysterySci My friends who had no issues having a FWB were also the cheaters (with different partners). Many times with the FWB.
Who can believe that rot?? If you have benefits YOU get to choose your friends and they might only be whining cause YOU are the benefit they want and YOU don't agree!

LOL🤣.
SW-User
Sounds good in theory but i catch feels too easily to try it..
Even just once or twice might be awkward..

Sex and intimacy go hand in hand as far as I'm concerned..
rjc36 · 56-60, M
If it is something that you are ok with then there is nothing wrong with it. I am sure with the correct person it could be quite enjoyable.
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
I had a friend with benefits for a few years people thought we were a couple .One night she brought a guy home I was baby sitting her kids and while we were talking the guy asked me if I minded her bringing home other guys made me smile and told him it wasnt for me to tell her what she can and cannot do he looked rather surprised till I told him we were just friends .
MysterySci · 22-25, F
@Rhodesianman So, it ended? You guys never became a real couple?
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
@MysterySci No we both met other people and went our own way and lost touch
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Wouldn't know about it.

Don't even have one without benefits! 🤷‍♂️
Bigmike2523 · 46-50, M
I've had several over the years, almost all of these friendships developed after a bad break-up when I still wanted to have sex but wasn't ready for a emotional connection yet, and eventho some of the women I met in these turned into really good friend none of friendships lasted once either they or I got into a committed relationship
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I couldn't sit down for a week!
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A temporary fix when that itch needs a scratch
Wolf90 · M
It can be fun but probably not with good or close friends... too easy for genuine feelings to come in. can happen even with ones whom you are not so close to... but if you both definitely can keep things professional... so to speak... then sure
JesseInTX · 51-55, M
They’re beneficial
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andreafg · 22-25, F
Avoid them!
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Never had one
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
I have friends with benefits.Lots of no strings attached sex.Awesome.Exactly right for a self confessed nympho like me.
exexec · 61-69, C
Never had them, but my wife enjoyed them in college.
Rambler · M
Never had such so no opinion
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
To each their own, it's not for me
TheBatQueen · 26-30, F
Depends on how good he is
Zonuss · 41-45, M
It's as good as it can be.
empanadas · 31-35, M
i think they are cool but there is always one side that falls for the other person
Driver2 · M
@empanadas that’s the problem

 
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