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Should I just give up?

I've been looking for a relationship but apparently no one is interested in someone who doesn't want kids and doesn't want to get married. A friend of my told me that If I don't want those things then I'm going to find it hard to find any one..., so is it a waste of my time to keep looking? I not about to go out looking for someone and get married and have kids just so that I can have someone. So, should I just give up the search?
Pretzel · 61-69, M
I would think those conditions would make you a desirable person - many men are just getting over their divorces and already have child support payments
You should never change your want's needs and desires to have a relationship.

I would suggest that you stop looking. Do things that interest you. Talk about who you are and what you want and stop listening to others who are trying to get you to be what you aren't. (Never take advice from someone who is not successful in the way you wish to be).

The person will one day walk into your life.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
Don't give up....
My first wife and I got married with the understanding that we did not want kids. We actually ended up with a more sexually active relationship than other marriages. We had more possibilities - like nudism and open hedonism..
She was always so proud of her tight pussy compared to her other friends with kids.
We were married for 23 yrs...
booboo · M
Really? Doesn't want kids and doesn't want to get married? Those are your criteria? I'm guessing that if they are, your "suitors" probably don't believe you, since that's the goal of most women looking for a relationship..IMO
Dogger · 51-55, M
Never give up your search. and don't settle for anything but what you feel you deserve!
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
Thank you! I don't feel I should just do those things I don't really want, just so that I can say I have some one. First off, it would not be fair to the child and second I would not be happy in a marriage
Dogger · 51-55, M
@Quietbeauty: OMG you shouldn't do things you don't want to do, period. you have very right to do things that you DO want to do! and no way is your friend correct. no way in hell!
SW-User
You can give it up for some time maybe if you feel like it.. Sometimes we meet people unexpectedly, when we are least looking for them.
My friend is happily married to someone and they both agree not to have kids
Selah ·
I misread your q. I cant believe you cant find a guy like that 😕
Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
Been looking for over 6 months
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Split100 · 56-60, M
i agree it will be harder to find but dont give up hes out there somewhere
abe182 · 46-50, M
Those are good qualities to have. Trust me keep looking do not give up or give in.
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Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
But should I just give up?
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Quietbeauty · 41-45, F
Should I give up is what I'm asking now

 
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