I think my partner sometime take advantage of me ... like why does he feel that I need to make his breakfast and clean the dishes, house 馃彔 agrrrrrr he doesn鈥檛 help me with anything lately 馃く馃く馃く
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SW-User
Sorry to say this but, the only way someone can take advantage of you is if you allow it to happen. Put your foot down. Stop cleaning up after him and tell him he's not a child, you're not his mother, and he needs to contribute to the care of the household.
@SW-User that鈥檚 true but I just can鈥檛 wait .. it will take a day or two for him to realise it 馃様馃様馃様 i think m just too soft 馃槫馃槫馃槫 he just ignores and I just have to be really angry 馃槨.. I m loosing my will 馃ズ馃ズ馃ズ馃ズ
SW-User
@SW-User [quote] Put your foot down [/quote]
This is good advice. Standing on one leg gets tiring after a while
SW-User
@Losinghope If you are constantly picking up the slack without saying a word, he may not be aware that you're feeling resentful. Why would you wait until you get angry? Sorry but it's not a healthy way for you to deal with problems. Relationship issues are best resolved when both partners can talk calmly, rationally, & logically.
