I think my partner sometime take advantage of me ... like why does he feel that I need to make his breakfast and clean the dishes, house 🏠 agrrrrrr he doesn’t help me with anything lately 🤯🤯🤯
Sorry to say this but, the only way someone can take advantage of you is if you allow it to happen. Put your foot down. Stop cleaning up after him and tell him he's not a child, you're not his mother, and he needs to contribute to the care of the household.
@SW-User that’s true but I just can’t wait .. it will take a day or two for him to realise it 😔😔😔 i think m just too soft 😤😤😤 he just ignores and I just have to be really angry 😡.. I m loosing my will 🥺🥺🥺🥺
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@SW-User [quote] Put your foot down [/quote]
This is good advice. Standing on one leg gets tiring after a while
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@Losinghope If you are constantly picking up the slack without saying a word, he may not be aware that you're feeling resentful. Why would you wait until you get angry? Sorry but it's not a healthy way for you to deal with problems. Relationship issues are best resolved when both partners can talk calmly, rationally, & logically.
@Losinghope Well, I mean... I'm not saying I agree with it but hey, it's worked for many years.. Still, I guess I should've prefaced with "people can do what they want" so eh.. Escuse moi!! ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ/
We live in a me, me, me society. Everyone says "what's in it for me". If we all concentrated on giving & helping each other, we would automatically become receivers.
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I GIVE a lot, and TAKE crap for not giving enough.
