What advice for getting a divorce

Get married first

Play NICE.. Give her half of everything - even the debts.
None of yours/mine/ours or time of investment vs previous ownership.
Split everything down the middle and where you cannot, agree on a value ($$) or barter..
Leave HER with the house and a car... Don't sell everything and put her on the street...
The karma will take care of both of you soon..d

Been there TWICE.. It's hard.. But no pissing on the other's parade..

End it well. No hard feeling fr each other. It would be okay

Settle amicably

Take the high road in all decisions, and make no snap judgments. You chooe this person once - respect that, respect her (or him). Good luck...you'll survive this.

Try to work out an agreement prior to hiring a lawyer. If you're able to do that, you both can use one lawyer and save a ton of money.

If you have kids... never ever let them hear anything bad come out of your mouth about their mother.

That’s when you buy a house for a woman you don’t like very much.

Don't keep the house. Make her take it.

-Get the BEST LAWYER YOU CAN FIND to represent your interests. They are paid to listen to you bitch and so let the lawyers do the bitching.
-Split everything 50/50...both assets and debts. Give a little, get a little
-Sell the house, split the proceeds
-Try to work any division issues out in mediation vice court
-Never bad mouth your ex, especially if you have kids.... just let the bitterness go and free yourself of that baggage so you can move on.
-Most of all...be realistic. Make a list of everything you feel you deserve and why. Remember, anything you owned before the marriage is your sole property.

Take EVERYTHING!
(Posting for a friend).

I can't be really helpful but.. good luck man.

Do it kindly and no one needs a lawyer

Get a good lawyer