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Pat999 · 31-35, M
sorry to hear this.. but small steps is everything

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Ignore him, resist every urge to "nag", and let things fall apart, and then he will be the one asking you questions. He's not taking responsibility because you're doing all the work and he thinks that includes taking the blame.
Sounds to me like he has selective attention that he uses to get out of things. This behavior doesn't go away and will worsen as time goes on. It may be time for you to evaluate how much worth and value he adds to your life. I've a feeling you can do MUCH better and deserve someone with motivation and shares your interest.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@Grateful4you I wont ever go to extreme of divorce but I have to find a less stressful way to communicate important info where he cannot say that he didn't know about it.
@REMsleep Too bad about the "No divorce" I couldn't deal with what you have to on a daily basis. I would rather live alone. You deserve a quality of life and I hope you can find it hon.
HannahSky · F
Probably tuned you out asking every day.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@HannahSky Yea he tunes out a lot but I don't know how to get him to listen to just the important stuff. This is important. I don't know what stuff we need. And I travel for work and work 2 jobs I don't have time.
HannahSky · F
@REMsleep that's rough, people hate to be told over and over, have to ask him what would be better for him if you need his input.
dont try and change moi .. baybay
Human1000 · 51-55, M
I’d leave him.
REMsleep · 41-45, F

 
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