How to deal with a partner that is not paying attention to anything
In some ways he is making teeny tiny baby steps of improvement. I am also tailoring my expectations
But Why Why do I tell him over and over that I have one week of vacation for me to go and visit our rental property and do a lot of work that needs to be done. I ask him what supplies I need because I need to know how much I have to spend and we need to get the stuff ordered. I ask him daily for 2 weeks to assist me Cuz he is not working.
Then today the day before I leave to start my 12 hour drive to the property he starts whinning that I was never clear about when I was coming and that I might have waited too late to purchase the supplies to work on the house. 😤
But that he will produce a list for me of things he needs up there.
Trying to stay peaceful and not nag.
Why doesn't he pay attention??? Ahhhhh
But Why Why do I tell him over and over that I have one week of vacation for me to go and visit our rental property and do a lot of work that needs to be done. I ask him what supplies I need because I need to know how much I have to spend and we need to get the stuff ordered. I ask him daily for 2 weeks to assist me Cuz he is not working.
Then today the day before I leave to start my 12 hour drive to the property he starts whinning that I was never clear about when I was coming and that I might have waited too late to purchase the supplies to work on the house. 😤
But that he will produce a list for me of things he needs up there.
Trying to stay peaceful and not nag.
Why doesn't he pay attention??? Ahhhhh
