Don't know how to feel

If YOU like what your wearing and feel comfortable in it wear it. You dress for yourself not to please anyone. I do understand it’s hard to get out of controlling relationships but I hope one day you get the courage to do so. Because that’s ridiculous and you are an adult and you shouldn’t have to listen to someone telling you how to dress.

candynerka sorry he has had classes and now is a world expert on fashion design and what looks good on you or is he really a budding control freak i ask myself if you feel comfortable in the clothes you wear fitting the occasion go for it

You are an adult woman and quite capable of dressing yourself. He isn't helping you; he is controlling you. Does he control you in other ways too? Tell him you don't need direction in dressing.

I'm not an expert at getting dressed. But the opposite. I can tell my wife she needs to take her clothes off all the time.

He seems very controlling. Have you freedom to be yourself in your relationship or does he control your behaviour too?

This is one of the tactics he uses to control you and it seems to be working.

'I took a class!' is a terrifying battlecry.

Dress what you are comfortable with

Dump the chump

WOW. I've heard those kinds of guys are dangerous. No, let me rephrase that. I know they can be. Because I was one of those kinds of guys. Had to control my girlfriend's, and my ex-wife.