Do you ever feel ignored?

Do you ever feel ignored? Like, nothing you say is really truly heard or has meaning, unless it effects the person you’re with...and then it suddenly means something? And then you just get so angry that all you can do is talk about the things that bother you, but it never has anything to do directly with the relationship? I mean, it kinda does, because you’re living with the person, and you tell them time and again about things that they are doing that upset you. The little things add up. It’s so irritating!