What would you think if a woman in her 40's actually got to marry a dude in his 20's?

Four of us in high school later married and my husband was 8 years older. My three friends married men who were 20, 23 and [b]40[/b] years older.

Mine was the only marriage that failed. The first and third ended in widowhood, the second is still going strong. All evidence indicates all three were good, strong unions.