My boyfriends doesn't have any hobbies except smoking weed

Before (like when we met 4 years ago), he did lots of sports and had many friends, the past 1-2 years all he's doing is spending his weekends with his 2 roommates and smoking weed on the balcony; or going to some club (not often), then stands in the corner, just smoking... He doesn't have any friends in the office anymore and is not interested to meet anyone new.
It has become much worse since corona, he should be doing home-office but he said he can't work from home and is going out smoking every day multiple times. His company will stay closed till december.
He turned 30 this year, I'm 26. His roommates are 24 and 25.

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4meAndyou · F

The ex was like that...could not deal with reality unless he was high. This is a huge, huge red flag. A lot of people with mental health issues of one sort or another mask their symptoms by getting high. It's like they are self medicating so they won't have to feel anything bad, and in that process they are destroying their own lives.