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Does anyone here find only their partners attractive and no one else?

Do you find other people handsome/pretty?
EugenieLaBorgia · F Best Comment
Only my partner.

raysam363 · 31-35, F
You can find other people attractive, but if you really love your partner nobody else can compare.
SW-User
Sure. I appreciate beauty in all forms. I don't become blind to aesthetics just because I'm commited to someone.
JustNik · 51-55, F
Commitment has never struck me blind; I just appreciate in passing.
SW-User
I see that people are attractive or handsome/pretty, but I don't exactly find them attractive.

It's like looking at a baby. You can tell that they're cute, but that doesn't mean you're attracted to the freaking baby 😂
Nomad7 · 26-30, M
@SW-User This is some fucked up comparison
basicgirl12 · 26-30, F
@Nomad7 whys it fucked up?
SW-User
Yes, it's funny

It's like a homing device

I do find others objectively handsome or pretty but my attraction is to my love
SW-User
I think anyone that says they don't find any other person attractive is kidding themselves. Or locked up in their partner's basement.
walabby · M
I can have an opinion that someone might be deemed attractive, without any compulsion at all to act on it..
330GTC · 56-60, M
I am realistic about it...my wife comes home with me and that's all I need
Carver · 31-35, F
No and I'm willing to bet anyone who says they do only find their attractive is a liar.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
No,There are a lot of gorgeous guys.I find many men good looking.
trackman11 · 61-69, M
Of course I do. I enjoy beauty in people, both physical and intellectual. I love uniqueness in individuals and I am attracted to optimism and kindness. However my wife is amazing. It would be unfair to compare anyone else to her. Ironically, she is far more beautiful now than she was 40 years ago. I would never have believed that possible.
SW-User
Hell no.

I fall in lust with others most days
DDonde · 31-35, M
Of course. The idea that one wouldn't find other people attractive seems kind of strange to me.
Edit: I think there's probably some miscommunication going on here with regards to what exactly people are meaning when they say "attractive".
Edit2: And just because I find someone attractive doesn't mean I'm going to try to be with them. 🙄 I am completely capable of loyalty in a relationship. It has nothing to do with that.
SW-User
When you’re with someone you’re with them if you find others attractive end the relationship you’re in because being with the right person means you don’t need to look somewhere else capiche
xixgun · M
I only find my wife attractive. Granted, I can note the pleasant aesthetics of others, but I am only attracted to my wife.
lilangel · 26-30, F
I personally will always find many people attractive even if I’m in a serious relationship
SW-User
Yeah..nothing wrong with something that's natural
SW-User
people like that exist? Lmao
Nanori · F
yes and I shared my ideas with them

 
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