Can you tell if someone is flirting with you?

Very seldom does someone first say "OMG I'd love to date you". If they do....run. Usually a flirt starts with small talk..."what's ur name"? "Do you live around here"? "What do you do"?

If that goes well....and the guy wants to flirt there is a very distinct change of things from casual conversation about nothing to the more specific, like --"do you date anyone"? "Maybe we can hang out sometime"? When the conversation changes from talk of YOU---to talk of maybe WE can......... You have crossed the line from small talk to flirting. You can tell.

I think it would be markedly different from my standard interaction, and, thus, stand out rather clearly.

Then again, I might miss it...hmmm.

if they're good at it, my panties let me know

I can most of the time

I am not always good at spotting this unless it's extremely obvious. I often think people are being polite or joking.

Im ao gullible that i immediately think anyone who talks to me is flirting with me lol

Sometimes I get confused between someone being friendly and someone flirting

I’m totally oblivious and could really use some tips.

I'm usually oblivious to such things

Honestly at times I can be pretty daft so no.

I don't think anyone ever has so probably not xD

Nope, I'm pretty oblivious

Sometimes

Probably not

till it's super obvious...no, mostly because i can't imagine anyone being interested in me.

No. I'm completely oblivious to it. If a girl ever really did flirt with me, I definitely had no clue.

Of course I can...
I mean if not, they'd not be flirting?

Rarely. (Or is really happens rarely.)

Usually unless they're being really subtle

Someone as smart as you can.

I'd like to think so 🤔

I used to could

me not really

yep

Always