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I personally have not. Though i was cheated on
Joe5663 · 61-69, M
Me too @Bexsy

sally1981 · 41-45, F
I had a wonderful affair that lasted 10 years with Rupert, my Husband never knew.
WillsonGray1974 · 46-50, M
@Sexylips that is terrible. now i know who not to trust
Sexylips · 36-40, F
@WillsonGray1974 you can trust me. It’s her you can’t trust.
WillsonGray1974 · 46-50, M
@Sexylips yes that is what i meant :)
Amy78 · 46-50, F
Yes, my husband and I are in open marriage and both have had lovers over the years.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
@Amy78 Cum to Florida for a visit !
inaccessible · 51-55, M
@Amy78 Makes things more stable, no surprises, I envy you
rachelsj · 22-25, F
Yes , several
rachelsj · 22-25, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde close call a few times, some were out of towners
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
@rachelsj Are you married or the men you had affairs with cheating on their wife with you?
rachelsj · 22-25, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde im married, so are some of them or at least dating
pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
Not ever, only 32 years married so far...
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No. That’s skanky.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Yes I have had an affair. More like currently having an affair. And I will continue until I can get divorced without leaving my wife homeless. I would rather start over with another or remain alone than to remain married and miserable.
666Maggotz · F
No. I have morals .
666Maggotz · F
I have always stayed strong in my values. Cheaters are scum to me, and people who knowingly enable it are worse than scum. @solitaire
OCguy · M
@666Maggotz I felt the same way when I was young too. The world isn't as black and white and everyone's situation is unique. Just sayin..not judging
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
@OCguy Ditto, I try not to judge anyone. I have reasons for what I do and they are mine, I am the only person I have to be happy with tonight when I go to bed.
exexec · 70-79, C
I asked my wife, and her answer was, "Define 'affair'."
I was married for 2 years & never thought about cheating even though I I knew she was. I won't do the marriage gig again,
solitaire · 41-45, F
@DropTopDig Yeah or husband or whatever. You've been hurt I can tell - just don't let it poison you.
@solitaire it always has since then. I'm sure you see my bitterness in my sarcastic comments.
solitaire · 41-45, F
Of course, I think you called me a fool in some other post and I deleted it!! Not going to tolerate insults @DropTopDig
KimWexler · 51-55, F
Yes. Several.
solitaire · 41-45, F
Wow. Did your spouse ever find out?
KimWexler · 51-55, F
Isthisit · F
Online yes. In person , no.
Egg01 · 56-60, F
I had several back in the 90s. I'm not proud of it and I've certainly never done it again. You live and learn.
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OCguy · M
@Glambarber congrats!
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Further to my earlier comment, I'd have to actually be in a relationship before cheating could occur, and it would have to be because the relationship was going bad. Having said that, in my last relationship where my ex dumped me effectively from the day she found out she was pregnant with our daughter in early 2017, I could probably have cheated on my ex for the next year until I left her and she wouldn't have cared, but I didn't as I wanted to fix the relationship not seek a new one.
SW-User
I find it funny when women concern themselves with questions like "why do men cheat?" when they often demonstrate to cheat at roughly the same rate.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@SW-User there's more people who have cheated than people who haven't 🤷 that's why genders pointing fingers at other genders is dumb to me too
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
No never. I could never cheat on someone I was in a relationship with.
romell · 51-55, M
@JustAmber oo oh caught you
JustAmber · 41-45, F
SW-User
That's a felony
@SW-User Is it, there ?
SW-User
@bijouxbroussard Lol nah.
It's been almost a year since I wrote that so I don't remember what I was thinking lol. Guess I was being sarcastic as usual
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
No, but my first wife had quite a few
solitaire · 41-45, F
@ronisme1 :(. Sorry about that
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@solitaire it happens. That was many,many years ago.
solitaire · 41-45, F
Yeah why marry then. Just sleep around and be single. Now having said that I'm not married and neither am I going to because I know I'm not an easy person and even when I tell people that they don't believe and I end up being blamed for this and that and blah blah blah!!@ronisme1
romell · 51-55, M
Mope bit wouldn't judge those who have since don't know their circumstances
SW-User
I've never been with a man that hasn't cheated. But no i have not.
Rpfun78 · 61-69, M
Sad I’ve never cheated, if I want someone eles I left@SW-User
SW-User
@Rpfun78 that's not sad. That's what you are supposed to do. It's sad the ones that are punks and stay and cheat.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
Nope, can't afford extras at the moment 🤷‍♂️
ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M
Having one on here 🥰
solitaire · 41-45, F
An emotional one?@ServantOfTheGoddess
ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M
@solitaire very emotional ☺️
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
I have had flings with married men.I have an open relationship with my boyfriend at my insistance.
Success · 26-30, F
Often. We enjoy that together.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
No. I respect my husband.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
No but the wife has!
SW-User
I have and got bloody caught,never again,i felt like crap my other half knew from day one and kept it quiet the hole time
SW-User
exexec · 70-79, C
I've never cheated but I've helped others 😅
inaccessible · 51-55, M
@GreenGoddess that would be an interesting story to read if it exists on your posts :)
pdockal · 56-60, M
@GreenGoddess and how did you help others ?
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@GreenGoddess With their cheating desires... Nice one. 8-)
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
No but the wife has!
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
@Jenny1234 I kinda expected it with the hours I was working and her being a stay at home mom! I was hurt at first but couldn’t really blame her. After a while the thought of it became a major turn on for me, so I encouraged her! We have been together forty years so every thing is good!
ilikeitlikethat23 · 61-69, M
@Orangehotrod Hi Guy,

I have been though the same thing and had the same reaction. Pissed and rageful for years at first then after a heart attack 5 years ago acceptance, the major difference is my wife came with that wanderlust. I understand now it was never about me either way, our 39th anniversary is coming up in a couple of weeks.

She has positives, she works hard around the house with her "hobbies" laundry, cleaning, cooking, sex with me and who knows who else. All in all, why should I kick her to the curb? She will only have fun finding another guy to be happy with.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
I think that’s a good thing! Congrats @ilikeitlikethat23
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openwater · 46-50, M
Never been married, but been with married women.
Justme22 · M
Yes a few years ago.
Sassygirl42 · 51-55, F
@Justme22 married huh explains a lot
No .... not in real. Have you ?
solitaire · 41-45, F
Nope. I’m divorced @BridgeOvertroubledWaters
ABCDEF7 · M
I didn't had any sort of relationship in life.
JFinch · 41-45, F
If I had, would you think I'd say so?
Not in real , have you ?
exta?
no, just the one.
Only one night stand...
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
First I need to have a marital affair!

 
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